13 October, 2017

Behind Existence


I’d been thinking about this post: what to say and why, relevant verses and experiences, and what I wanted people to get from it. But when I came to actually write, nothing happened.

Some call it writer’s block, but it’s more than that. It’s how I’ve been existing, and I don’t like it. It’s living dry, inspirational-less, motivation-less, lacking energy, lacking joy. It’s a drag. I’m scratching the bottom, wondering why I’m doing what I’m doing. Things that should be spontaneous and life-giving have become forced.  Everything is on the to-do list, and it still doesn’t get done. I blame study or commitments, but that isn’t true because a few weeks ago it wasn’t like this, and all that’s changed is me. Guys, this isn’t life. 

I like to think of life, living, as overflowing: I blog because I have an abundance of thoughts and they have to spill over. I laugh and have crazy dance hugs with my sister because my zeal for living (and lack of sleep) knows no bounds. I study because my desire to be informed to help others needs a release. I share on Instagram because blogging can’t contain all the snippets of inspiration. I randomly create or connect because I’m bursting to bless someone. I pursue God because I can’t stop. It’s a natural result, not anything we can force. It’s living because of something else. Then, everything becomes a blessing, a gift, a special bonus – because this is the overflow. We don’t expect anything from it, therefore everything we gain adds to our delight. It’s blissful, it’s joyful; it’s living. That’s what I want my life to be like.

So, this is where I am: trying to get back to living overflowing. I’ve tried to generate that experience, and it doesn’t work. Lack of sleep, poor eating habits, stress, missed devotion time, extra time on social media – none of that helps, but there is something bigger behind all this which I regularly forget. We discredit it, and then wonder what’s happening to our lives. 

We’re living in a battle zone. There is an enemy. God is real, but He has an opponent who’s plotting our defeat as surely as God has won the victory. This is what I was trying to write four hundred words ago. 

I didn’t want to do the 31 Hugs Challenge this year. I said I didn’t have time, and it’s a lot of effort – every day comes around very frequently. But God knocked some sense into me: did I just say I didn’t have time to give to others? What is my life?! That’s meant to be my focus, my mission, the thing I would love to make more time for. It was a needed reminder to get back to what matters, so I took up the challenge to give every day of October, and it was exciting. 

Then last week – the first week of the challenge – was crazy, busy, tiring, and stressful, between being away, having late nights and early mornings, new units to read and watch for study, and four assignments to do in three days. I had study group meetings, and volunteering, and teaching. I missed an important appointment, and felt pushed and worn. And I was meant to be taking time each day to think of and invest extra in someone else?! I missed a few days – actually, I missed the first day of the challenge. I got discouraged, and started second guessing myself and the motivation behind 31 Hugs.

Then, bam. I had a realisation: this is the devil. He’s on my case muddying things up, getting me discouraged, keeping me busy and distracted, and having everything land on me when I’m trying to do a good thing. 

So this was going to be an amazing strategy-filled post based on Ephesians 6, discussing spiritual armour, and spilling all the things I’ve been thinking out (overflowing, see). But it’s not; it’s life. Sometimes it’s messy and hard, but here’s the truth: it isn’t about us. We’re in the middle of a war, and there is an enemy! He’s the one getting us down, and it’s him we're warring against, not ourselves. But it’s not a battle we have to fight, because it’s already been won. Our job is to claim that and walk in His victory. But it is a shooting ground, and we need armour, we need strength, we need to be in constant communication with the Captain, we need to be familiar with the Guidebook, and we need to prioritize these things, because this is life we’re talking about – eternal life, but also life here, today. 

Jesus came so we could have life, and we could have it more abundantly. He says whoever lets Him flow like water into them, will not only have life, but will have rivers of living water flowing out of them. Let’s go back to the source – the only One who can fill us, give us abundant overflowing life and victory in this struggle.


Finally, my brethren, be strong in the Lord, and in the power of his might. Ephesians 6:10 

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How have you all been? I feel like it's ages since I've posted and we've chatted. What are your thoughts on living from the overflow or spiritual warfare? What do you think truly living constitutes of? Also, does anyone else have a hard time naming posts?! Stay strong, friends. xxx

22 comments:

  1. The past 30 days have been filled with stress for me - and instead of going to Jesus more - I am so tired I am going to Him less. Just the opposite of what I need to do.
    Here's a hug.

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    1. Mmm, I know what that's like - the temptation is so strong! Sending a return hug, and may we both cling closer to Jesus through this time! Thanks for your comment.

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  2. To be honest I've always been curious and been fascinated subject of spiritual warfare. I read the books This Present Darkness and it's sequel Piercing the Darkness by Frank Peretti and though fiction books, opened my eyes to how real spiritual warfare is and how important prayer is.
    (And sometimes I do have trouble naming posts :) )
    Thanks for the encouraging words :)

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    1. Yes, it's a broad topic! Those books sound interesting; I'll have to check them out. :) You're right too - prayer is key in this battle. Thanks for sharing, Sarah. I appreciate your comments (and it's encouraging to know naming doesn't always come easily for everyone else!). :)

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  3. Wow wow wow...this has been a phase of life for me too Jessica and you really hit the nail on the head, the devil tries to get us wherever he can.
    Life in general should be overflowing...Jesus' love should flow out of our hearts into everything we do, everything we see, everything we hear. <3 You are so beautiful for reminding us of these things...praise be to God for the blessing you are. xxx Love you Jess, you are really a ray of sunshine in our world xxx

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    1. Thanks so much for your sweet encouragement, Anna. Yes, you summed it up - Jesus flowing into us, and then flowing out of us into everything. It's incredible to consider; no wonder Satan would rather it didn't happen! Thanks again for your comment - sending hugs! :) xx

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  4. Once again, Jessica, this post was so real and... refreshing. It doesn't sound like you felt very refreshed during the time leading up to it and yet God has used it to refresh me and others (I could only guess how many).

    Funny you bring up spiritual warfare. I've been reading the same This Present Darkness that Sarah mentioned in her comment before me. Or rather, I was reading it some days ago before my life got to busy and it became low enough on the priority list to be set aside. I think it's important to keep in mind that it's just one man's understanding of the invisible war waging around us... but if nothing else, it's helpful to be reminded not of *how* it is, but of *that* it is, if that makes sense.

    I love your expressions of what it means to truly live, and I would agree! You remind me of the water that Jesus gives us - the living water that becomes in us a spring welling up to eternal life.

    Thank you for your honest thoughts. And yes! I have a hard time naming posts!

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    1. It's so awesome to see God turning discouragement into encouragement! :) Thanks for pointing that out.

      Wow, maybe that book would be good for this season of my life too. Your explanation does make sense, yes. And that's good to be reminded of - I know I forget often!

      Yes! I have been blessed recently by studying more about the living water Jesus discusses - it's actually all through the Bible!

      Thank you for your continued support and thoughtful conversation, Jordy. I appreciate it! And we're in the naming dilemma together. :)

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    2. This Present Darkness should probably be read with discernment. I mean, that's the case with all literature, but since it portrays one writer's depiction of the unseen spiritual realm, that may be even more true. It's not a bad book though!

      Oh, I love discovering those thinks throughout Scripture! I can just imagine that God delights in hiding those things for us to discover so that when we do, we are just amazed at His goodness all over again! <3 What are some of those instances where living water is mentioned elsewhere in Scripture?

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    3. Okay. I will keep that in mind if I read it! Thanks. :)

      Yes! It's so exciting. :) Oh, let me think - there's the verses in Revelation 22:17 & 21:6. There's Isaiah 12:2-3 &44:2-4. And I really like Isaiah 41:17-18: When the poor and needy seek water, and there is none, and their tongue faileth for thirst, I the Lord will hear them, I the God of Israel will not forsake them. I will open rivers in high places, and fountains in the midst of the valleys: I will make the wilderness a pool of water, and the dry land springs of water.

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    4. Oh, how precious! His words are so precious - sweeter than honey. <3 Thanks for taking the time to think back and share!

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    5. Indeed! You're so welcome. :)

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  5. The devil has been attacking me too a lot and a lot of people I know have been dealing with the same thing, so we're not alone.
    I'm praying for you, my friend. Keep fighting the good fight, keep fighting for Light. <3

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    1. Mmm, he knows time is limited. Thanks so much for your encouragement and prayers, and reminding me it's something others are dealing with too. Praying for you too. Stay strong! xx

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  6. Your posts always inspire me, Jessica - to live a life that's overflowing, and a blessing to others, and truly living. <3

    (and I find naming posts is just behind writing intros in levels of UGH) ;)
    Jem Jones

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    1. Aw, praise God! Amen - that's what I want for my life too.

      You're right - how did I forget intros! And levels of ugh is the perfect description too. :) Thanks for your comment. xx

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  7. beautiful jessica. <3 you never fail to inspire me + make me jealous of your awesome writing skills. x

    sophy

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    1. Thanks Soph, all praise to God. :) You inspire me too with your photography and deep thoughts on life. xx

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  8. "So, this is where I am: trying to get back to living overflowing. I’ve tried to generate that experience, and it doesn’t work. Lack of sleep, poor eating habits, stress, missed devotion time, extra time on social media – none of that helps, but there is something bigger behind all this which I regularly forget. We discredit it, and then wonder what’s happening to our lives."

    ^ This has literally been me for the past few weeks, to a T. I've been so out of sync with the Lord and just living randomly, recklessly. Without a strategy. I LOVE that you brought up spiritual opposition because this is something that just occurred to me legit yesterday. I hadn't been thinking about how the devil is using lies to keep me lukewarm about the Lord but I see it now and I had forgotten that was one of his tactics. Thank you for sharing this! Love your heart and this post is so honest and very much needed. <3

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    1. Ah, without a strategy describes it perfectly! It's a sort of aimless existence. I'm so glad this reached you at a time you needed it, Erin. Praise God! Thanks so much for your comment, girl. Let's keeping fighting this battle - victory is certain!

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  9. I'm sorry to hear you haven't been feeling motivated, but I'm glad your religion could help you find the problem! It's a little strange, though - yesterday I wrote a post about a similar feeling, and just now I was reading a post from The Ups and Downs of My Not-So-Average Life that seemed to echo the same exhaustion. I guess we've all hit the same dead end, and now we have to turn back.

    I love the 31 Hugs idea! I'm totally in. :) I hope all of us doing it make an impact, however small.

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    1. Mmm, it seems to be the way of life, doesn't it. We all have our highs and lows. It's encouraging to know, though, that we're all in this together, and it won't always be this way.

      Thanks for joining! You're so right - everything little thing makes a difference. And as always, thanks for reading and commenting! :)

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